Friday, November 27, 2009

[day 331... nov 27]

My friend Sue gave me this picture frame when my youngest son, Cory, was born - one spot for each of my children. Sad to say, it has taken me this long (five years!) to get organized enough to fill the frame, but here it is at last.

One of the many joys of moving into my craft room has been finding all of these "meant to get to that" little projects that had been piled here and there and are now all finding a home in this new space of mine. I'm slowly getting the piles of printed photos organized too.

It's so fun to rediscover all these treasures! And to begin making progress. Very sweet, after so long.

Thursday, November 26, 2009

[day 330... nov 26]

A delicious Thanksgiving feast at Garland's this year, and lots of enjoyable visiting all around. The boys got down on the rug for their traditional arm-wrestling contest.

After Tynor and Kellen determined that yes, Kellen is still stronger (3.75 years is a big barrier to overcome still!), the little ones got into the action. Then Niall and Grandpa arm wrestled - what a hoot!

Saturday, November 21, 2009

[day 329... nov 25]

Cory and I visited Niall's class Tuesday morning before school, and found these photos up on the wall in that classroom show the progression of an outdoor project building a pit that became too deep to be safe for the kids any more.

Alice, Niall's teacher, described the situation in a note home last week: "Due to some heavy labor during outside time, the pit got considerably deeper and steeper. In addition to that they were severing the roots of some surrounding trees. When I looked at it yesterday afterschool there was no doubt in my mind that it was no longer safe to play in and around. I made the executive decision after school yesterday to close it and make it off limits until we could look closely at safety issues, and talk to the kids about next steps....Scientific investigation? Soil study? Sand box? Pond?

Apparently many of the kids were pretty indignant about the pit closure, and staged a protest march up and down the blacktop behind the Woods building, and wrote letters to Laurel, etc."

Niall and I had several chats about this on the day Alice felt she needed to close off the pit for safety, including on the drive home. Niall started off with huge excitement over the whole “save the pit” movement (“It’s amazingly easy to get people to join a group in protesting” was one choice comment – time to learn something about mob mentality pros and cons, perhaps? :P) and all the steps they had taken and their “rights” being trampled and “Maybe now they’ll listen to us” and more. Fascinating, and high level of excitement and need-to-share.

Then it came up again at bedtime, and although I didn’t want to get into it then (it was really late after the State of the School meeting), Niall really couldn’t let it go. Then it was anger, disappointment, sadness, frustration – “They never even *explained* why they closed the pit” and “They aren’t telling us anything even though they had a meeting about it.” We talked about safety and the need for grownups to sometimes make decisions that kids don’t like because grownups are responsible for the kids’ safety (based on their judgment, not always the same as the kids’ judgment) and the school has to be responsible about choices for legal and safety reasons.

But it really came down to that he thought there were ways the pit could be safe that weren’t being talked about and that in any case, kids just “need to be more careful.” Mostly a lot of disappointment because he and the other kids had worked so hard on it, I think.

Fortunately, Alice had a great discussion with the kids the next day and after airing their feelings and sharing frustrations, they brainstormed ideas about what to do with the pit now. Lots of creative ideas came up and they worked as a group to sort through them and strategize how to move forward.

A remarkable example of Little School thoughtfulness, a teacher's skill and caring, and emergent curriculum in action.

[day 328... nov 24]

This is the living room corner that has been overflowing with scrapbooking supplies and papers and photos to scrapbook for months (dare I say years?).


And this is the beginning of order and space in my new craft room (formerly Tynor's room). I've already worked on a scrapbook(a Christmases-past mini album project by Stacy Julian). Feels great!

[day 327... nov 23]

Wonderful day of relaxation, including a morning visit with my mom and a loooong (3 hour!) lunch and catching up with my friend Sue. Fabulous!

Sue and I were having such a great time that an elderly gentleman walked up on his way out and told Sue that he wanted some of whatever I was having. LOL!

(This photo is of Sue and her daughter, Amanda, at Amanda's 6th grade graduation last spring. I was too busy chatting to take any photos today!)

[day 326... nov 22]

Having fun with Niall and my laptop's Webcam.

And the same with Cory on another night.

[day 325... nov 21]

I just couldn't resist this "then and now" comparison. Cory is hugely into creating paper outfits and objects right now, and his older brother Tynor loved to do the same when he was younger.

Look how similar these two paper costumes are! So cool.

For the record, Cory is Boba Fett from Star Wars, and I'm not sure what Tynor was - maybe just standard armor.